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Obviously this is me consuming my native food in my natural habitat…And that was sarcasm. Recently I was forwarded this op-ed piece and parody guide about dating for an Asian-American girl in the US. I also live in San Francisco, where it seems like I can never not see at least one interracial couple with the female being East Asian walking down Valencia Street.

Allow me to share some choice words that have been bestowed upon me or my fellow Asian American lady friends by men who were attracted to us:. Because you look really German. I am curious to know how many and how often non-Asian women receive similar lines. The thing is, racism is never okay. There is no appropriate time or occasion for it, not even when trying to pick up a hot chick on Friday night at a bar.

A lot of you reading this right now might assume that I heard such ignorance only from white American guys. Um, no, Asians girls do not all look the same. And we happened to have similar haircuts due to shared good taste, which might be hereditary. I just expected Asian guys to know better than that, but that stereotype was proven wrong on my part. I mean, are you Korean? I completely understand that your options of opening lines are limited to a very superficial level, but men frequently choose to connect with me through my race.

And that is not okay, nor is it effective! I like being Asian. I am proud of it. I just wish guys would stop trying to get my attention and affection through that one single aspect of my individuality, which I have no control over nor have I worked hard to achieve. Also yes, I too am surprised that I have non-Asian friends. Of course, the circumstances have to be right: I am a Hispanic man, not dark of skin; but not white far from it.

I could relate to the dilema you face. I moved to Vancouver a number of How to talk to asian girls ago from hickville Nfld. I dated a few actually, and ended up marrying a Japanese girl 13 years ago. The fact was, her "How to talk to asian girls" had been Canadian for several generations, and mine, only 2.

So she was more Canadian than me. Thank you for the tips; I appreciate your candor. I always gravitate towards Asian girls and tend to ask about their specific ethnicity, because I am fascinated by the struggles that Asian-American girls faced How to talk to asian girls up in America. The question is not part of my one-line pick ups that I default to in hopes that It will ignite a desire for me.

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Just move on. Incidentally got any girlfriends in Sydney Australia I could practice with. Love the colour of your hair in the pic above you look a bit clique but none the less amazing. I like how the last two comments are guys trying to act interested so they can hit on you or a friend.

Reading some of these comments deff give guys a bad name all over… but they "How to talk to asian girls" deff entertaining. So this is a white girl in an Asian body, lost count on them a while back. In general some girls are worth talking while the rest are over decorated feces. It must be fun for you How to talk to asian girls hide cowardly behind an anonymous account and leaving hateful comments on the internet for people who try to provide helpful genuine points of view and share a piece of their real opinions.

Your dumb comments just serve as evidence why I felt like I needed to write articles on this subject. Lost count on them a while back.

In general, some people are worth my time while the rest are haters with no lives. No, you do this because you have nothing else going and vent your frustrations here online for others to comment and critique.

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